Day 14, Tuesday: Ten things that make you really happy for the Blog Every Day in May challenge.
Today is my youngest son’s 6th Birthday and after abruptly waking him up with ‘Wake up birthday boy its your birthday!’ I guided him downstairs for his surprise. We had decorated the couch with bunting and balloons with his first present waiting for him with a ‘6’ badge to wear to school. After singing Happy Birthday we shot of confetti guns and Maddox opened his present of new Horrid Henry books. It was great morning and I look forward to the rest of our celebrations after school. We are taking Maddox to get his first Build-A-Bear at the workshop in town and eating out for a special dinner. My mum got him a proper sized tent thats waiting in my closet so I look forward to future camping trips with my family. I know he is going to be really surprised. Thank you Nonna!
My sister is five and half years younger (to the day, so we share half birthdays with actual birthdays) and I always thought that was a huge age gap. Now that Maddox, my youngest, is six years old my baby fever is worse as ever. Having two sons I still have high hopes for adding a baby girl to our family one day. It is new ground to plan a baby because we did not plan the other pregnancies. Due to the military my husband missed out on a lot of the early months of Ronan’s life and almost the entire pregnancy with Maddox. Having a more stable life as expats in England I look forward to experiencing having a child abroad. I do not know at this time when we will start trying but I am constantly reflecting on what I love about motherhood.
|Enjoying country walks in England, a pastime I enjoyed with my own father, is a gem of motherhood.|
Gems of Happiness in Motherhood
- When they giggle in their sleep. The sound melts my heart. I have yet to it capture on camera, but they still do it.
- The Lessons of Life. It can be some of the most insightful, challenging and sometimes hardest part of life growing up. Sometimes the most rewarding. I make sure my sons realize that life is not easy. So when they accomplish something like mastering the diving board at the deep end of the pool they realize their accomplishments. I love sharing those moments with them.
- When they notice things about life. Things that you would not have seen because you are a grown up. I love viewing the world through my children’s eyes.
- Holidays and Birthdays. Each one is special and count down the days till the next one. Children get so excited about them and they are more fun as a parent than I remember from being little.
- Reliving my childhood through my children. Raising Third Culture Kids (TCKs) in a similar nomadic life as my own. Taking them to places I went to like Disneyland, having them go to school in England like I did, watching shows and films I loved as a child, etc. Its an interesting take on the past while living in the present.
- The Spontaneity. Things I dont look forward to or plan can be some of my favourite memories. I took my boys out on an impromptu hike after school one day and we had such a great time. Life is too short not to be lived in the moment.
- The things they say. Sometimes its heartfelt and sometimes its hilarious. I honestly never know what to expect from the mouths of my sons. I enjoy especially my one on one conversations with my sons when they come home from school.
- Their Growth. Watching them get older. Looking back through photos and videos. Comparing them through out the years as they grow. Its an amazing thing about life.
- When the hug, kiss, or say ‘I love you’. Especially when you are least expecting it. Especially when you really need it.