This is a photograph taken with my dear friend Rungnapa on my second trip to Thailand in 2006. We first met when my husband and I were teaching English for the summer in Bangkok. While he could not be here for this trip, I wanted to show him the amazing Thai food he was missing back in California. Purposely we had the photo taken after we had just finished an amazing meal at Mama’s, a place we had frequented back in 2004. It is hard to have a bad meal when traveling in Thailand with the different flavourable tastes and wide variety of vegetables and fruit from the region in south east Asia. Continue reading
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Elizabeth’s Expat Life in Thailand
I am so thrilled to be able to write today on Bonnie’s inspirational site. You see, I am one of those fellow ‘third culture kids’ turned third culture Mums, as well as a British American. Bonnie and I have a lot in common, including the fact that we are both photo geeks and grew up in Asia and Europe. It is confusing (very) and can frequently lead to odd conversations with people ( ugh).
My family and I currently live in the Southern Thailand, on the beautiful island of Phuket. I started our family blog The Bradleys to share our daily life as a family that values spending time together above anything else; we especially love holistic living/parenting as well as travel. Despite being a ‘third culture kid’ I had never heard of this term before I discovered Bonnie’s blog and TCK series. For 30 years I have struggled with my cultural identity, expressing who I am and where I am from to people. It sounds odd at first but when you think of how many countries across the world are filled with immigrants, in reality this is quite common. In fact here in Phuket, the local population isn’t 100 percent Thai but a mixture of Hokkian (Chinese) and Thai, which is called baba. I found this fascinating as I was ignorant on Thai heritage until I first visited Phuket Town and saw all of the Taosist temples and realized that there was a heavy Chinese cultural influence.
Our little 5 year old daughter Kaya is a fellow TCK and global citizen. When she was born, we decided we want to raise her outside of the US (living in LA for 8 years had taken a toll on us) and closer to where I grew up in France. My husband however, felt hesitant to move there and instead decided to take a job teaching ESL in Korea. The experience was interesting but my husband ended up coming home from work late in the evening, with more work to do before bed. It was exhausting. We ended up moving back and forth for several years until we came back to Phuket a few months ago. We’ve lived here for two years in total, with a 4 month stint in Scotland. Our intention was to settle down there permanently but due to changes in the spousal visa, we were forced to leave until the politics get sorted.
Phuket is a lovely place to live. Safe, excellent food, and permanent good weather ( well we do get a lot of rain too…), it’s been a lovely place to be based. This week is the vegetarian festival where the whole island adopts a vegan diet and street vendors sell vegetarian delights such as coconut icecream! The Thai culture is very respectful of foreigners and our daughter has several close friends that she plays with. She is also picking up Thai, which is fantastic. And yet, we are craving settling somewhere permanently, and we’re not sure Phuket is the right fit. With having family in the US, UK, and Canada, we’d like to be somewhere closer for them to come visit and vice versa. There aren’t many homeschooling families on the island, nor is there a close knit community for expats per se. The majority of foreigners living here year round are in their 50s and up.
Travel is an important form of education and we feel from the last 4 years of traversing the globe our family has experienced things we never would have if we had let our dreams get diminished. We had many set backs along the road to finding home, so to speak, and even though we haven’t found where we want to call home, we have picked up pieces of ourselves where ever we have visited. The world is filled with beautiful people looking to express themselves and find fullfillment. We share flaws and goals. We are more similar than different.
*images original to The Bradleys blog. Please get in contact if wanting to use anything from their site.
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Tailoring in Bangkok, Thailand
The Muppet Movie and Thai in Brighton
Headed back in the cold to go to Brighton |
Maddox ready for some food! |
Window candles at the Thai restaurant |
Hot Green Tea |
The boys love Thai food! |
Fun family time |
Ryan on his phone |
Ronan cleaned his plate…as did Maddox. Good boys! |
Left over Valentines decorations |
Pretty pink pout. |
Muppet Movie Madness! |
Love Love LOVE Miss Piggy! |
Manifold [Meet Bonnie Rose]
Who are you? In 100 words or less (a hundred words usually comes out to a small paragraph).
You last meal consists of two things, what is it:Vegetables and Brown rice. I have labeled my family ‘Flexetarians’. We have been vegetarians and vegans for certain periods of our life. In the past I have been frustrated with individuals who would make fun of my vegetarian diet or question whether the way my family ate was ‘healthy’. Or then be teased in periods when I did eat meat for not being a then strict vegan. Labels can be annoying, especially for a girl who finds herself in the grey area of life. To me food is more about the health benefits and my love of good tasting food. My husband and I do strive to continue to use food as fuel for our bodies and some nights may be a vegan meal, while another we may be eating fish. The important part for us is to be flexible, and embrace new ideas and keep life enjoyable.
Two websites aside from email/facebook/twitter that you go to the most:
Pinterest.com
I did not want to join, finally got sucked in and it is a great place to find ideas, inspiration and motivation.
Two favorite cities and why…This is really hard for me to answer because I could easily put a number of two city combinations here. I have traveled so much in just 29 years of life. I am going to side with emotional reasons for places being my ‘favourite’, and perhaps not the wonders that I saw.
3. What?What do you do for a living?
I am a mum first and foremost to two boys. I also work as a hair designer at two salons here in Burgess Hill and Brighton. On top of that I am a freelance pro photographer who specializes in lifestyle portraiture and fashion and a makeup artist trained in airbrush makeup. I love being creative.
What was the first and last album you bought?
What is your nickname, how did it come about?
‘BonBon’ is the nickname most people come up with who become close acquaintances or friends in my life. I have a close friend who calls me Bonzai. Not sure how he came about with that one, but I like it a lot. My sister calls me ‘B’ which I may prefer over Bonnie.
What tattoos do you have if any?
After my father passed away I got his plane tattooed on my forearm, an F-111E. Without meaning too I have added to the tattoo by burning my arm on an iron while protecting my kids from it. Now my plane looks like it has a jet stream leaving it. I also have an outline of a black star on my right foot by the toes for my Esther, my favourite female in the bible.
4. IF.
If you could anywhere in the world, all expenses paid, where would you go?New Zealand. Closely followed by Russia and Morocco. I chose New Zealand because it was one of the those places I wish I had gone when I went backpacking around Australia. I am a huge avid fan of Tolkien’s books like the Hobbit and the Lord of the Rings trilogy. Having seen the films many times over I would love to go see those beautiful landscapes in person.
If you could only pick one person to go with you on this trip who would it be?
My partner Ryan. The last place we got to go on a real trip to was Thailand back when I was pregnant with our first child. We were there for the summer doing mission work and helping Thais practice their English. Since then I have gotten to go back to Thailand and go to Cambodia. My husband has gotten to go explore Japan shortly after the tsunami last year and is going to Marrakech, Morocco shortly with his classmates from University. I look forward to getting to actually getting to go on travels and trips with him around the world together. It is a passion of mine and something we have not gotten to do much of with his previous commitments with the military.
If your friends were to describe you what would they say?
It might depend who you ask and what country they are from to say how they would describe me. In England, I am perceived as an American. In the USA I was perceived as not really American but a girl from Europe. Despite whatever cultural differences people may describe about me I would think they would say that I was passionate, creative, driven, and loving mother.
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