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To Solsbury Hill at Sunset
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My Expat Life | 860 Days Later
May 2011 | A tearful goodbye at the airport as we say goodbye to our kids, not knowing when we will next be together. We are leaving them in the US with family until we can find jobs, a place to live, and a school for them to attend. We joke that Ryan and I will end up living on the streets like Dennis and Deandra in a tongue-in-cheek spin off called ‘It Is Always Sunny in England’. We were living one step up in a hostel for our first few weeks in England in a room with up to 10 other occupants. I did not have to fend off meth addicts, but did have my beauty products stolen from two girls who arrived late one night and left early in the morning.
– St. Nicholas’s Eve and St. Nicholas’s Day in December
The War on Girls: Education & Bloggers
I have two sons. I am their biggest advocate when it comes to their education. As a nomadic family you have to be. With moving frequently my eldest son at eight years old has been home educated and has gone to five different schools in three states in the US and two countries. For me as a mum the biggest challenge facing my kids and education is just making sure my kids are not being held back from their potential. I look at the spelling lists, the math work, and the lack of homework my sons have in the UK and I see how behind it is from schools my son attended in the US. My eldest went to an accelerated learning school for first grade and was doing algebraic equations for his math level. That school worked with kids with what level they were at individually and did not hold them back or push them forward for the group. It opened my eyes to the potential kids at young ages have to learn. My first grader here in England came home this week with spelling words that included: go, to, and we. I have my son reading chapter books at home and he helps in reading paragraphs aloud in Harry Potter with us as a family. Not to mention I am certain the spelling words I worked with him on in home education a year ago were much harder. It can be really frustrating as a parent especially as in the expat life and dealing with cultural differences. Our solution so far is to do as much home education as we can in our free time on top of everything they are learning at school. We have talked about revisiting the plan of home education full time at home if things do not progress at school. This is my personal story with education and raising boys. What does it mean for the girls of our world?
I am glad that we are highly involved in our boys’ education and that we did not let the in-laws hostility towards home education ruin our plans to continue with it. However not all children all over the world even have the luxury of freedom to go to school. There are people who think girls should not get an education. Those who say ‘what is the point when they are not going to get a job’. These girls face the challenges of distance, poverty, and child marriage. Instead of families advocating for their daughters education, there are girls who are banned from going to school and beaten for attending. Girls can be harassed by the community on their way to school. Dreams of girls continuing their education become dashed when forced into child marriages where taking care of the family replace their role of a student.
There are people standing up for change. Like Malala Yousafzai, a Pakistani girl who is an activist and blogger standing up for education and women’s rights. She was shot in the head and the neck a year ago ‘in an assassination attempt by Taliban gunmen while returning home on a school bus’. This past friday Malala was at Harvard to accept the 2013 Peter J Gomes humanitarian reward. You can read Malala Yousafzai’s blog here.
To read Malala’s blog: http://www.malala-yousafzai.com/
My Expat Life: Comforts
Expat to Expat Q&A: 09/13
Why being a Brit in Suburban USA isn’t so bad
The truth is, I think I’ve only been to New York once in the year that I’ve lived here in America. You see, I actually live on that cusp between rural American and suburbia, between corn fields and super Walmarts. People in the city think we’re nuts for living this far out, and for a long time so did I! But, even as a Brit accustomed to hedgerows, local pubs, and walks through the town center, I’ve learned that living in suburban USA isn’t so bad. Here’s why:
Farm Fresh Food
Beautiful work commute
Driving through rural and suburban PA is a pretty good commute as things go. Even as you get closer to the city, there’s still plenty of wide open spaces, and trees, until you get into Philadelphia proper. Sometimes when I’m traveling even further away from the city I’m the only one on a hidden country road, and I thank my lucky stars I’m not on a busy road caught in traffic.
It’s the best of both worlds
I really miss living in the heart of a busy city, being able to arrange last-minute coffee catch-up with friends, or being able to stroll through neighborhoods filled with different cultures in the space of a few minutes. But we’re still so close to Philadelphia that we can get that urban fix whenever I want. I love Philadelphia, it’s an amazing city and would like to move a little closer to it, but life surrounded by trees and open roads without sidewalks – it’s not so bad.