My high school prom dress my mum made me a Jane Austen inspired gown. |
My high school prom dress my mum made me a Jane Austen inspired gown. |
Day 10, Friday of the Challenge: Most embarrassing moment (s). Spill.
Feel free to join in and if you catch this anytime through out the month feel free to just jump right in.
I like to live by the rule that if I make someone laugh or smile with me, even if its at my expense, its better to deal with embarrassment that way. I was trying to come up with the most embarrassing stories of my lifetime but they either got lost in my memories or I have honestly blocked them out. All but one.
I met Ryan my freshman year in the traveling theatre group we both auditioned for at our University. We were friends with crushes that fall semester and started dating the week before Valentines Day that Spring semester. Sometime between February when we started dating and May when we parted ways for the summer we had our first kiss. Neither of us have remembered exactly when it was but that there was a lot of hype leading up to the first kiss. Which leads me to our embarrasing story we share together.
We were parked outside of my freshman girls dormitory in his car after a date. We both had to be in before curfew and we definitely waited until the last most possible moment to return back to our dorms on campus. It is already a little awkward and embarrassing in the beginning of our dating period because he was my first (and only) boyfriend at University. I had been anticipating the first kiss and getting more anxious about it every time one of my friends would ask me if it happened yet. This was not a party school. There was only one day a semester the opposite sex could visit the other dormitories and there were strict rules enforced. Doors had to remain open, male guests could not use the restrooms in our dorm rooms, and ‘all feet must remain on the floor’. The later rule I assume is to discourage make out sessions or heavier happening. Anyways I explain all that to say that my friends held pizza parties after you had your first kiss with a guy. Having not had any pizza parties yet and really wanting to kiss Ryan you can imagine my heart was racing inside his car. He tried to be smooth and lean over to kiss me and I obviously did not get the mental memo and instead of having my lips meet his, our heads collided so hard it hurt. So embarrassing. Needless to say that night was not our first kiss and no pizza party followed that evening. I remember going inside and finding my RA upset that he would ‘never try to kiss me again’.
My boys left recently with my in-laws to go back to the USA for seven weeks this summer. I will be joining them after I get back from my trip with my partner to mainland Europe. It will be 11 years since I have been back to my home in Napoli, Italia where I grew up twice for a total of 6 years. As much as I cannot wait to go back home and that I hope it does not go by too fast, I am really looking forward to seeing my boys again in three weeks. We have had to be apart in different countries or continents four times over the last seven years, and it does not get easier. Things can be quite loud at home when you are raising two boys, but after about 4 hours of silence it has been too quiet. I miss them so much. Going to look back over their last week here in England and highlight the best parts of our time together.
Bowling with my boys. #bowling http://instagr.am/p/ |
Bowling Bros
#bowling
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My boys just finished reading The Prisoner of Azkaban. Their reward? Getting to see the film for the first time and Ive promised butterbeer. #butterbeer #harrypotter #book #read http://instagr.am/p/ |
My partner and I at dinner tonight. http://instagr.am/p/ |
My boys with their chapter books for Summer reading. #book #read #summer #dragon #samuraihttp://instagr.am/p/NGpmxmIk1U/ |
Fresh flowers decorate the arch of the church this morning. #church #lindfield #door #flowers #arch #allsaints http://instagr.am/p/NGZuLhok_V |
Secret! Today I noticed a filled in stairway in church. #history #church #lindfield #allsaints #stairs #hidden #secret #arch #old http://instagr.am/p/NGkixsokzA/ |
Peach rose bush in Lindfield
#rose #peach #roses #lindfield #cloud
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Watching the ducklings after church #ducks #church #allsaints #lindfield http://instagr.am/p/NHvMTcIk3e/ |
My OCD has paid off. In the process of organizing one giant box of legos into several easy to categories, we located the missing Sonic Screwdriver. #sonicscrewdriver #doctorwho #tardis #lego #OCDhttp://instagr.am/p/NIyod_ok4l/ |
Classy. My sons drinking milk from the ‘fancy’ glasses.http://instagr.am/p/NI-Misok7k/ |
Taught my boys how to wear their new hats from River Island. #riverisland #hiphop #hat #summer #boyshttp://instagr.am/p/NJQjBsokx-/ |
Ronan. Your smile melts my heart. #ronan #hat #hiphop #batman #smilehttp://instagr.am/p/NJgMJook5I/ |
Maddox. He looks older with that chocolate mustache. #hat #maddox #max #hiphop #mustache #costa #son http://instagr.am/p/NJgZmfok5P/ |
Maddox and I painted our nails. He chose rockstar grey and I chose a matte orange-y pink. #nails #colour #pink #orange #grey #hands http://instagr.am/p/NJ0Q2Bok0L/ |
Loop plaits #hair #hairstyle #plaits #braidhttp://instagr.am/p/NEsrUqIkwM/ |
My son twirls his hair when he reads. #socute #hair #read #book #boy #twirl http://instagr.am/p/NJ-_ohIk61/ |
Last night with my boys at the pub before their flight back to the USA. #raisingboys #pub #food #dinner #family @ryana_official http://instagr.am/p/NMTuJuokwW |
My son making sure no one eats his mushrooms.
Dont worry, Papa doesnt like them.
#food #mushrooms #pub #son
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Desserts are stressed spelled backwards. #pub #dessert #food #etonmess http://instagr.am/p/NMcgJ0ok12/ |
Gave Maddox a haircut at midnight. Now we are whispering stories before we fall asleep. Early flight tomorrow. #hairstyle #haircut #maddox #max #shorthttp://instagr.am/p/NM2XdLIk2C/ |
The boys found one of my necklaces, and since its a rarity that I wear gold I let Max have it.He looks so grown up. #chain #gold #maddox #max #hat #hiphop #boy #sonhttp://instagr.am/p/NNxPo_Ik2K/ |
Amazing how awake my boys were at 0500 for a photo op. Took these right before they left for the airport. #raisingboys #son #hat #hiphop #shaka #hilife #peace #smile #boy http://instagr.am/p/NN0M1QIk2w/ |
I have never seen so much of my dad (RIP) in Maddox than today. I wish had photos of him at Maddox age to compare. #dad #son #grandson #expression #photobooth #genes #maddox #max http://instagr.am/p/NOCtTjIk5z/ |
My boys have been counting down the days for weeks until their Papa and Mimi come over to England. The day finally arrived last week and there have been smiles all around. The first full day the boys got to show them around their school as we went in for the award ceremony. The boys met me at work on Friday and we went out for smoothies afterwards. We spent the afternoon painting and played games together. On Saturday we took the boys to Crawley to see the new Spiderman film and it really exceeded my expectations. We had our first mexican meal in over a year at a nearby restaurant in the town. What was really interesting inside were the chandaliers. A few were made from old spoons and one from old bottles. I posted photos from the below. Sunday the boys and I walked into Lindfield for church. We got to see the little ducklings and they are just as cute as ever. Unfortunately the English summer rain caught us in the downpour. Monday we decided to go see Bodiam castle and there we were greeted by hoards of ducks. They were quite cute and we had fun feeding them. Another creature I found was a fuzzy little bat sleeping on the castle wall inside. It was quite cute. On the way back we decided to take a detour to the beach in Hastings. The weather was so cold and it made me miss the warm Hawaiian sun. We caught up with the rain again on Tuesday, this time in London. We went to the British museum for most of the day and I think the highlight for me was the Picasso exhibit. The boys really enjoyed seeing the mummies. While on the subway we were right next to the actress from Doctor Who (and ER), Alex Kingston, who plays River Song. No photo unfortunately to share but it was another highlight of the day. The boys enjoyed playing on the pirate ship at Hyde park while it was not raining. It has been a good first week. Just one more week left with the boys before they head over to the US. I am sure it will go by way too fast.
The inlaws surprise the boys at school.
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Ronan reads his story to his Papa and Mimi at school.
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My boys receiving their awards at the end of the year award ceremony at their school.
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2 for 1 smoothies today at
#gerzoocoffee
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Painting with watercolours with my sons.
#painting #watercolour #watercolor #drawing #art
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Afternoon art
#art #artwork #painting #watercolor #watercolour #girl
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Lost a game of Monopoly to my father-in-law. I traded Mayfair to complete the pink properties…and then landed on both blue properties!
#monopoly #pink #Mayfair #gamenight
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Strawberry love.
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Waiting for the rain to stop and the pub to open for lunch.
#selfportrait #rain #England
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The baby ducklings in Lindfield are getting bigger and are still so very cute.
#ducks #lindfield #pond
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For ‘blood sucking’ creatures of the night they are quite fuzzy and cute.
#bat #castle
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I caught this duck drinking from the dog bowl.
#duck
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I had him eating out of my hand. |
He is a silly knight named Maxalot.
#knight #sillyface
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At the seaside in Hastings
#beach
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Fish faces with my son Maddox
#sillyface
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Sometimes this is how I feel.
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Maddox showed up with a bowtie for dinner. He requested I call him ‘the Doctor’. Should I have checked to see if he had a Sonic Screwdriver on him?
#doctorwho #bowtie #kid #dressup
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‘Fun': Palaeontology fun with my son
#day4 #photoadayjuly #fun #bones #dinosaur
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‘Something Soft': My son’s hair
#day29 #photoadayjune #soft #bw
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Happy 4th of July!
@welovemarilyn @alwaysmarilynmonroe @bonnierose
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My son won first place for the Purple Pinky Children’s Art Competition
#charity #art #school #rotaryinternational #purplepinky
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Dip dyed, cut off, and distressed my jeans for new summer shorts.
#shorts #jeans #dipdye #summer #diy
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Mirror crashed and broke into way too many pieces than I have patience for today. http://instagr.am/p/MpvvaZIk-J/ |
‘Favourite part of your day': Receiving messages from friends & family all over the world.
#day3 #photoadayjuly #phone #text #message
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My dinner before the game.
#pizza #eurocup2012 #italia
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A new book for my summer reading.
#summer #read #book #ontheroad #kerovac
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Its Game Day.
#eurocup2012 #italy #italia
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Attending the Summer Concert at my boys’ school.
#school #concert #music #singing #songs
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The biggest thing this week was the Summer Fayre (UK spelling) at my boys school. It has been something we have been looking forward to for weeks. The boys got to engage in many crafts and activities. One I did not post a photo from was where they three small balls to knock of coconuts from their stand. If you hit it, you got to keep the coconut. Too bad my Hawaiian boys did not bring home any coconuts. 😉 However they had a lot of fun with the Jousting competition. Ronan and Maddox went up against each other first and Maddox did a really good job keeping up with his older brother. Ronan, the champion, got to then play a game against his classmate. I think both of them would have played this all afternoon if they were allowed. There were cute animals, lots of yummy cakes, and of course tea. Luckily the rain held out enough so that we had sunny weather. I really love all the saturday activities they have at the boys’s school. I wish I had not missed out on so many with work, but appreciate all the time we have had together. Memories to last a lifetime.
‘On your mind': My 9th anniversary is just 39 days away.
#photoadayjune #day24 #selfportrait #wedding #bridal #anniversary
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A must read for all girls
#girl #book #heels #read
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#quote #OscarWilde #Wilde #advice
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Summer Fayre at my boys’ school today.
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‘Something cute':
#day25 This London Swan #photoadayjune #swan #cute
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Norwegian School Band performing today at my boys’ school.
#school #band #music #norway
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Sleeping continued… |
Acquired the first half of the UK versions for £1
#books #read #potter
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Friday Night
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‘From a high angle': Dinosaur Exhibit
#photoadayjune @NHM_London
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‘Movement': My sons Jousting
#day23 #photoadayjune #movement
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‘Where you Slept’
#photoadayjune #bed #damask #England
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